Apart from the Vows and the signing of the Marriage papers, the other parts of the wedding ceremony are optional.  On some occasions, the bride is “given away” by her father or some other relative.  Should you wish your guests to be part of the ceremony such as singing, it is important that they know in advance what is expected of them.  I always produce a bound copy of the Order Of Service that provides space for guests to sign at the conclusion of the ceremony.  Should you wish your guests to take part in prayers or readings, copies of what they are expected to say should be available.

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The Welcome

When used, this is usually carried out by the Celebrant and can refer to family & friends and sometimes make special mention to those who have travelled some considerable distances or indeed apologise for those who are unable to attend.

The Reading

Some form of reading is usually included and can range from a selected reading from the Bible or indeed some verse or prose appropriate to the occasion or some special reading applying to either or both getting married.

The Vows or Promises

The law requires the words “I…….take you…….to be my husband/wife”.  Apart from that you can decide what to promise.  You may choose “to have and to hold from this day forth, for better or worse, for richer or poorer in sickness or in health till death do us part”.  You may want to say “I wish to share a relationship of love and caring”  Whatever is right for you is what you should choose.

Giving of Rings

For many years a symbol of marriage is placing a ring on the fourth finger of a Bride.  This custom recently has included the exchange of rings between both parties to the marriage together with suitable statement at the time such as “I give you this ring as a token of my love and promises to you”.

Signing the Documents

This is usually done in front of your guests, however whilst signing is necessary by the Bride & Groom and two witnesses together with the Celebrant, it can be done following the ceremony.

The Pronouncement

At this point in time following the Vows and giving of rings the Celebrant pronounces the couple Husband and Wife.  A time when you have publicly committed yourselves to each other.

Closure

This time the Celebrant usually wishes the couple well for the future and could well say, “May your love flourish and grow through all the trials and triumphs that life has in store”.  Also asking the guests to welcome the newly married couple. The LocationCouples may choose wherever they wish to marry, be it in a private home or public park.  It is however necessary to marry where the licence provides and should a couple choose an outdoor venue, they should also include a wet weather alternative.
 
What time of the day can we get married?

You can have a celebrant marriage on any day, and at any time, you wish.